- Make sure you're comfortable, you don't want to interrupt the session by getting a sore or tired hand. Some of the most popular positions are.
- Kneeling in front of your man. Perfect if you want to let him ejaculate on your face - you'd be surprised how much this turns some men on.
- Sitting beside him. This is great if you don't want to take the load of cum all over yourself and prefer to clean up with a towel.
- Lying down. Can cause a bit of discomfort, however this can be mixed well with oral sex to give your hand a break.
- Make sure there's enough lubricant, if of course, your partner prefers sloppy handjobs. Vaseline works great, however there are several male masturbation creams designed specifically for jerking off, try them out to see which one suits you both best. Note that some men prefer a dry handjob, so work this out before buying a gallon of lube :-)
- The technique. This is one thing that varies from person to person, so make sure you talk to your partner through the session to see what he likes, and dislikes. Some men prefer a soft, gentle stroking action to begin with. Holding the penis in your hand and stroking the entire length of the shaft, including a lot of scrotum touching. Others like to have an extremely fast paced jerking motion, concentrating on just the tip of the penis. Usually, you can find something in between that you both enjoy. Be certain to keep up the communication, as is true with all sexual activities.
- Using your mouth. Most men love to have a little sucking, licking or both included with their handjob. A perfect way to end a good handjob is to lower your mouth over his penis and take a cumshot into your mouth.
- Playing with the anus. Note: most men are afraid of you touching this area at first, so make sure to communicate properly, you don't want to ruin a good HJ by startling him. If he's comfortable with it, running your fingers over the rim of his anus and gently pressing it with your fingers can help to stimulate him.
- Use both hands. While one hand is stroking the penis, put your other to use by feeling his chest, scrotum, anus or nipples.
- Have Fun. The most important thing to know is if you're not having fun, you're doing something wrong. Making sure you are communicating well will without a doubt help this situation out.
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